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Our family

Thursday, September 18, 2014

Chugging along

It's been quite an amazing three weeks for the Enfield family. I continue to drive around in shock that we are here. I keep thinking that at any minute I'm going to pull into my driveway in Yelm, go up to Fort Stevens or Crossroads or Bootcamp and go into Walmart or Safeway and see about 50 people that I know. I am getting used to the walmart here and the grocery store. The H.E.B. is quite different from my Winco, but it's not bad. Driving around is also improving. I'm able to get to the grocery store, the kids' schools, the main shopping area and the YMCA without needing my GPS. Oh, and the Starbucks! Although the Starbucks here is INSANE! It is always super crowded. It's probably because it's the only one within several miles, so people come in droves. It's definitely different to drive around and not have a little coffee stand on every corner, but that's probably better for my wallet and my waist line. We closed on the house a week ago today. We are so happy that we were able to close a week earlier than expected so we could get into the house, have lots of space, and be in our neighborhood. Speaking of space, we have lots! The house is twice the size of our Yelm house, and right now we have almost no furniture. The delivery for our stuff is scheduled for Sept. 30th, so we are making due until then. We have been on Craigslist and have purchased guest room furniture, a couch set for the bonus room and we have also purchased Bethany her own queen bed. So, those areas have some furniture:-) As you can imagine, JD is loving all the space to run around in the house and Bekah is doing lots of cart wheels and we keep reminding them that at some point we will have furniture, so don't get used to it. As far as activities, we are jumping right in. JD's baseball team, The Cibolo Curve, has their first fall tournament this weekend. We are looking forward to that. Bekah is also enjoying the Volleyball team. Bethany is thriving with all of the activities at her school. She is getting super involved, which makes us so proud. She just jumped right in. She has joined student council and is working with them at the home football game concessions. She is also auditioning for the first (of 4) school theater production. She is adjusting well to the larger work load and is loving having her own room to go to for her homework time. I finally get to start work on Monday!! I am really in need of some routine and this will definitely help. I am not in a good workout routine right now, haven't figured out a house cleaning routine or chores for the kids, and I'm finding myself just wandering around the house wondering what to do. So, I think starting Monday I will be able to put myself into a routine knowing that I have a time that I have to be at work. I am going to be a lunchroom monitor at one of the elementary schools here. The hours are so perfect! I was so concerned that I wasn't going to be able to find something like ABC academy and the fact that I was able to come and get my foot right in the door at the school district is such a huge blessing. I will be working from 10:45 to 2:30 everyday, so that gives me plenty of time to get my workouts done in the morning and any errands done in the afternoons. Bekah is set up to start riding the bus starting on Monday and , once we have our things, Bethany and JD will start riding their bikes. I also can't wait to start decorating the house. We really need our stuff here for that so we can see exactly where the furniture will go and where the pictures and other wall art we have will go. After that I can start figuring out if I want to paint and what we still need to get. With the items that we've purchased off craigslist I feel like we are off to a good start. Like I said, we already have guest room furniture, so feel free to come and visit:-) I think that's about it for now. We are all doing well, but we definitely are missing everyone a lot! We went to Bekah's open house at her school last night and it definitely made me a bit sad because I didn't know anyone! We do have our tickets purchased for Christmas, so we look forward to seeing as many of you as we can!

Tuesday, September 9, 2014

Week One Done

Well, we've been in Texas for a whole week now as a whole family. Doug and I continue to look around in shock that we are actually here. The scenery down here is so different than that of the PNW. The trees are different, the ground is different, the sunsets look different, and the bugs and creatures are definitely different. Both Texas and Washington are beautiful, but definitely in different ways. So, here is a recap of our first week here. Monday was of course Labor Day and Tuesday was a busy day. We came out to the lake to set up the trailer, did some driving around and took the kids to the new house. The realtor met us at the new house so the kids were able to see inside. They of course ran straight upstairs to claim which room they wanted. There was no arguing, which was nice, and they all decided pretty quickly. Bethany claimed the largest of the 3 bedrooms, although all the rooms are fairly nice in size. The girls both ended up with small walk-in closets, which will suit them nicely. JD ended up with the middle room with the regular closet, but there is plenty of room for him to run around and play his nerf basketball in there. Tuesday was a fairly busy day for me. I started the day by registering Bekah at her new school. It was so weird working with any school other than Fort Stevens or YMS, but they were very nice. After an hours worth of paperwork she was all set and ready to go for Wednesday to be her first day. I then went to the district office for my interview for a part time position with the school district, which I did get. Yay! Hoping to start next week. After that I went and repeated the same lengthy paperwork process at JD's school and then tried to get Bethany registered, but they have a deadline of 10am, so she would start on Wednesday morning after we dropped the other 2 off. After that, Doug and I took the kids to buy school supplies. I will definitely advise anyone needing school supplies to not wait until 2 weeks after school starts. It was nearly impossible to find everything they needed. Wednesday was definitely bitter-sweet. It was so exciting for the kids to start their new schools, but it also made us miss the familiarity of our Yelm routine. The kids handled the first day at a different school fantastically. We were so proud of them! They all came home that afternoon full of excitement about what this year will bring. There are many differences about the schools here. First of all, the Elementary school has a very smooth, safe and coordinated pick-up and drop off. When you go to drop off in the morning you get in the car line and the line keeps moving. As you move to the sidewalk area, there is someone standing there to open your car door and let your child out. They then close the door and you are expected to keep moving! Long gone are the days of the crazy Fort Stevens drop off where cars are parked, parents sit there and watch their kids walk in and other cars are cutting in line. Then, in the afternoon, you have a bright orange card with your childs name on it, as you pull through the line someone with a walkie-talkie calls your childs name to someone in the building and then as you get to the sidewalk someone is walking your child out of the school, opens your door, lets your child in, closes the door and then, again, you keep moving! So weird, but it works! JD is in an intermediate school for 5th and 6th graders. He is changing classes just like middle school, which is so strange. Thinking of him having 6 different teachers is very overwhelming for me, but so far he is handling it ok. We will be having a 504 meeting sometime soon so we can discuss any modifications he may need, but I am excited to see how this schedule will allow him to grow. Bethany's school is HUGE! It is only 7th and 8th graders but has 1100 students! She is very excited about all of the club opportunities and all the different classes they offer. She is in a theater arts class that will have 4 productions over the year and she will get high school credit. So exciting! The biggest struggle for her is how intense it is. So much more is expected of the students out here to include things like actual grading of homework. If you miss questions on your homework it will affect your grade. Once she has all of that figured out, she will do great! Well, that's all I will bore you with today. We are adjusting well, we just can't wait to get into our house! I will write more next week:-)

Saturday, August 30, 2014

Big Changes

I’ve been trying to find time over the last couple of weeks to sit and write a blog post, but time has flown by. I can’t even believe the whirlwind of events that have taken place since mid-July. On July 18th Doug and I flew down for our trip to Vegas not knowing that we would be returning to Yelm with big news and big changes. That Monday we received the call that we had been expecting for over a year, that Doug was being offered the position at Fort Sam Houston in San Antonio. We’ve been anticipating him getting this position for quite some time, but had honestly gotten to the point where we were moving on with our lives in Yelm. I know to some, this move came as a big surprise. People have been shocked and have said that it all happened too fast. For us, this move has been on our minds for 3 years. It all started when we spent the summer down in San Antonio 3 years ago. It was then that we even began to consider living anywhere other than Washington. We felt at home in Texas. We loved the people, the culture, and the activities and yes, even the weather. Well, maybe Doug didn’t love the weather, but the rest of us really enjoyed lots of pool time and lots of sunshine. Doug also loved being at headquarters. He loved the challenge that came with being there and loved thinking about all he could accomplish there if given the opportunity. To go back to getting back from our trip to Vegas….we immediately jumped right into the moving process. First on the list was telling the kids. Then we started telling friends and family. We also started tying up loose ends with all of our commitments. Most of you as our friends and family know that we are so involved in so many areas of our lives and ending all of those commitments has been difficult. We said goodbye to the Enfield clan, which was very hard. We have also been getting our house ready for new people to live there and went on a house hunting trip to find our new home. This last week we had packers and movers in and out of our home and we have said more goodbyes than we can even count. There is so much we are going to miss about our lives in Washington. We are going to miss our family. Having our kids grow up with so many aunts, uncles, cousins and grandparents has been such a blessing. They are better people because of all of you! We are going to miss our friends, who we also consider family. You have all loved us and supported us and have helped our children to have such wonderful lives. We are going to miss having cows in our backyard and living in a town with only 5 stop lights. We are going to miss going into Walmart or Safeway and always seeing someone we know. We are going to miss our baseball, fastpitch and basketball teams. We are going to miss Crossroads and all of our church family there. We will miss seeing Mt. Rainier all the time and we will probably even miss the rain. We are going to miss our house. That house has been an amazing home for us over the last 10 years. We have made so many memories there. The children have grown up there, we hosted small group there, numerous parties and get togethers and of course had the annual 3rd of July party. Saying goodbye to the house was hard, but as I reminded the kids, the house is only sticks and wood and paint, what matters most is the memories we made there and those we take with us. As long as we are together as a family, that is what counts. With all of that said my favorite thing to say this last week was I’m so ready to stop saying goodbye and start saying hello! We are getting ready to say hello to so many new wonderful people and things. We are looking forward to a new neighborhood with new neighbors and a pool! We are looking forward to learning more about our new church and making friends there. We are looking forward to exploring a new area and learning what it’s like to live in a city. We are looking forward to what living in a city will offer the kids as far as sports and theater and swimming and other fun extracurricular activities. We are looking forward to LOTS of sun. We are looking forward to finding fun new hang out places and finding our new favorite shopping areas. We are looking forward to making so many new memories in a fabulous new place. In closing I want to say that our home is always open! I know that this move has been hard on us and I know that it’s also been hard on those we love. There is an open invitation to anyone who wants to come and visit. Our lives would never have been the same without all of you and we would love to see you again!

Monday, August 25, 2014

On the road again...


Time to dust off this Blog again.  I think everyone knows by now that we are leaving the Pacific Northwest and heading out for Texas!  I got a job opportunity and we decided that this was the right move for our family.  Over the last month we have cleaned and gutted (furniture) to our Yelm home.  We have renters moving in shortly.  We flew down to San Antonio and bought a house in Cibolo, TX.  The packers are at our house right now shoving all our wordly possesions into boxes as I write this.  My wife and kids will be flying down there and staying with friends until I get there.  I will be driving the truck and travel trailer down there with the dog.  LONG trip, but this is really the best way to do it.  More to come through our adventures!